10 effective ways to turn strangers into your friends

It happens several times that we are travelling in a bus and suddenly an attractive person sits with us. We want to have a conversation with them  but feel too much shy to do that.
so friends here i am going to share with u 10 effective ways to turn the strangers into your friends .

1. Don't be shy , say hii                                                               

It sounds so obvious, but it’s the first big barrier. You have to be willing to put yourself out there to start a conversation.

I noticed that people are welcoming after you break the ice. It’s not something that everyone wants to do because it takes some courage to go up to someone you’ve never met before and start a conversation. However, more people are welcoming than we generally expect. When you encounter someone who isn’t, remember that someone else will be.

2. Smile Please                                                                     

Smiling gives a good first impression. Practice in the mirror. Then smile to the world.

I noticed that people relaxed themselves when I smiled first. When I continued smiling throughout the conversation, they smiled back and really opened themselves up to deeper conversation.

3. Don't think about their thinking                                               

This is your life, and you have the right to talk to whomever you want to talk to. Not everyone is that open. Allow them to be how they and think how they do, without letting it challenge your courage.

4. Don't take rejection personally                                            

If they reject you, it isn’t about you. It’s about where they are at mentally, so don’t take it personally. If they passed up on the opportunity to connect with you, then they missed out on something great.

5. Do the dare                                                                           

One of the best ways to combat the fear is to do it repeatedly. Push through the fear and it will start to feel more natural.

The fear may never fully subside, but if you continue to battle through it, the momentum you create will be more powerful than the remaining fear. For example, when I feel terrified of approaching someone, I think back to a calming moment or a moment that made me laugh. Then, the fear didn’t feel so daunting anymore.

6. Practice makes a man perfect 

Don’t worry if you seem a little awkward  at first. If your intentions are authentic, you will come across that way more and more each time you try.

It’s just like any other skill where it gets easier with practice. A few of my first conversations with strangers felt scary and awkward, but they didn’t do any harm. It made me learn what I needed to work on.

7. Treat them as they are your friends

This way you’ll treat them that way instead of seeming awkward—and being comfortable around someone is the best way to start a new friendship.

8. Make them laugh.

Laughter makes the conversation fun and joyful. People enjoy talking with others who make them laugh. So get out of your head and don’t take anything too seriously—just have fun with it!

9. Ask about them

Talk about their interests, opinions, and ideas. Then respond to what they share.

The best way to keep someone interested in a conversation is to show an interest in their life. Everyone likes to talk about themselves. Even if you don’t know a lot about a particular subject, keep asking questions to understand them.

10. Find out about their  passion.

If you see their eyes light up when they talk about something, ask more questions about that.

If you find a keyword that helps you figure out their interest, try to talk about that. For example, if I asked “How’s the weather?” They say, “It’s nice that it’s foggy since. It’s better to run in it.” Then you can go ahead and talk about running.

So what are you waiting for guys . Follow these steps and go out for a practice today& make some new friends.  best of luck.

Thanks for reading